Prison Penpal Darrin Wilder

Darrin Wilder

Darrin is 32 and incarcerated in the US (CA).

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We sometimes ask ourselves what love is. We walk aimlessly through life in search of love but what one should do is make sure that when we do find love or it finds us, that we are susceptible to it. Ready to give and receive love, ready for all that love has to offer. My intent here is to find companionship and in order to do that, one must first find a friend in the one he or she chooses to embark on the journey to find love with. True love is founded on friendship so my purpose here is to establish a friendship that can be the foundation in which a building of true love can rest securely upon. A love that no matter the storms and strong winds beat against its structure, it will withstand the calamities of life. Should a fire start, a love that will extinguish its flames and rebuild what was damaged in its inferno. My experiences have allowed me to first experience love and then a love lost. A building whose foundation was weak and a hurricane of deceit toppled it. Now after regaining my footing from all that I lost in that storm, I am ready to subject myself to love’s unpredictable nature. I am ready to befriend someone and then set out on a joint adventure to find the sunshine and rainbows that come in the wake of the storms of life. Are you willing to join me on this path that promises all that we have searched for, all that we desire and yearn for? I am! So grab my hand and walk with me as we see how this search for love will end. If at all interested, reach out and learn more about me as I will you. Peeling back one another’s layer to see what lies beneath the superficial.

In seeking companionship we discover that love is the climax of our search. We discover ourselves while discovering the true identity of those we decide to engage. Seeking partnership with, desiring to feel something never felt before. Expecting from something that all claim to be an impossibility. Like expecting water from a dry well, or birth from a barren womb. I believe despite them, I dare to imagine that what seems to be fleeing can actually be captured. That what seems to be imaginary can be manifested should the proper union be met.

Enter my world to experience myself in all of my many facets. The inescapable joy of being the presence of one who hopes and dreams. One looks for you even though we have never met. My name is a name I hope you’ll never forget, your face is a face I dream of often, mysterious you are.

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Date of Birth: 10/30/1989 (32 years old)
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Single
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Race: Black or African American
Ethnicity: Not Hispanic or Latino
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Height: 6 ft. 3 in.
Body Type: Athletic
Hometown: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania (USA)
Spoken Languages: English
Religion: Christian
Astrological Sign: Scorpio

Profile will end on: 08/05/2023

Darrin Wilder #69587-066

USP Lompoc
3901 Klein Blvd
Lompoc, CA 93436

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Incarcerated Since: 2016
Sentence Received: Not Convicted (pending)
Earliest Release: N/A

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